The Bonobo Experience


Our aim is to promote a culture of kindness and compassion. A place to share our dreams and fears, desires and longing. By taking a leaf out of the Bonobos’ book, we can begin being playfully creative.

Spanish Retreat 2023

Very soon, we will be running our first ever 5-day Bonobo Experience retreat at Valle de Sensacion in Alpujarras, Spain.

When: 19th April – 23rd April 2023

What to expect: Have fun exploring the sex-positive culture of our primate cousins. Explore new perspectives of belonging and joy, while being rooted in your non-verbal, playful and primal self. Foster inner growth as you make new connections with your tribe through supportive, bonding touch and compassion. Increase your understanding of sex and sexuality and the many ways it can enrich and nourish your life.

Our introductory price of £400 includes the 5-day retreat and all activities, food and accommodation (not flights)

Tickets are now on sale for our retreat!

Take a look at our wonderful host venue the Valle de Sensaciones

We hope to see you there in April 2023.

We offer a rare opportunity to develop the awareness of bonobo tribe and connection through touch whilst being in human-hood.

Our events are not exclusively about sexual connection (though it’s welcome here!), but more-so about tapping into our deepest essence of pure PLAY within a tribe who absolve all potential for disharmony through PLEASURE!

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We shall see beyond our ideas around sexuality, we shall share and work through stress and conflict, using games and role-play, pleasuring and sexual playful-ness.

By using physical connection we’ll explore new modes of communication.

Play is the most important aspect of Bonobo life.